ive been running into the exact same thing, first time playing this game ever, so of course ive been clicking on everything with a "!" sign on it, but it often leads to carnal events with characters i havnt even begun to progress relationships with. but meanwhile ive only just unlocked the corruption/relationship mechanic and im nowhere near even doing anything with Aldit yet. also the scenes you described like Laila's backstreet market fun was exactly the scenes i found too. most recent version of the game as well: 0.30