i really like this game, but I'm confused because at one point i had to play the game 5 times just to stop dying from whatever was in my home/ stupid spider plant. :(
You can't die from the spider plant. Are you talking about the fae on Date 4? That happens when you get two of the three choices in the forest wrong. The way to pass it is to not look at it, to avoid running and to go right.
I tested every choice combination and the bad ending was triggered every time unless I got all three choices right. Idk if that's maybe a bug or something.