I'll admit, that line has been altered in newer builds, but the message of the scene remains the same, we just change the name and the player character still saying the word "trap".
The POV character is going on an arc and part of that arc is coming from a place where he really only understands the pornification of femboys and isn't familiar with the nuances and specifics, and over the course of the story grows to understand his short comings.
I understand that people dislike the word trap, I am one of them. But I am telling a story and this is just the beginning of the adventure.