It’s really nice to see a developed reponse like that! I love when people genuily engage intellectually with erotic media; kinks are a fun way to gain occasionally surprisingly deep insight into biology, and it’s quite frustrating to see how often people refuse to genuily engage due to something trying to create arousal, or let it affect their judgement rather than considering it seriously when they do. Also similarly pretty confused at the amount of sympathy with erx, their motive isn’t even that cool, and the “we used sympathy” argument is like saying you shouldn’t damage someone’s legs if you beat them via leg swipes