well im on 3.1 update and there are no new dishes, no gigi and her daughters ( or did you mean mari/mom?). hell no way to get shovel, trust building is slow as hell on jay only "task" raises trust and then 4 points , similar issue with carpenter girl only using beer, as far as the girl on the far in the am lust is easy but nothing apparent for raising trust as such her trust bar is empty.
to be fair im finding more problems with the game overall than anything. it has a lot of repetition, alot of stuff i am stumbling on ( including the "follow" command you spoke of being "work in progress" so follow command comes up sure but it apparently has NOT been implemented. right right now only 2 girls in game are of any playable state which is girl on farm and jay, mari/mom you can spank but that seems to be it with her, one of mari/moms daughters you can peek on but again thats it as far as i have been able to get.
what it boils down to is a barely playable demo with lots of repetative grinding
one more thing i need to point out that makes no sense is the fact that it looks like 2d paper mario but you have to run high graphics settings which lets be honest with the look there should not be a need to high graphics settings with SM, any gtx 1080/equivelant, or higher gpu should run it just fine but nope, still requires forcing high graphics settings. there are other games that have better graphics and look more like realistic people that do not even require high graphics settings to work, but my point here is if you dont have dedicated graphics card you will be in trouble and you cant skimp on gpu either example works great on 1070/1080 but wont run with 1050, works fine with 2070, 2080, 2080 super, and 2080TI but not lower 20 series, as far as newer gpu cant speak truthfully after getting out of pc building during the gpu price gouging during the 10 series cards ( yeah only an idiot would take the new norm gpu makers followed after the price gouging from gpu crypto miners).