i havent found many good videos on these admittedly its been a lot of learning from somewhat spotty info on arachnoboards; if i was to recomend one to start with i would suggest holconia murrayensis which is what J3z the one im handling is, easy care and comparatively slow while still being docile enough to handle regularly just keep em somewhat hot and you wean them off of humidity as they get older they do require mist to drink as babies but eventually its all from food, species selection depends on location tho i am in the usa and holconia are fairly new and somewhat pricey rn