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You should have the option right before penetration. It usually says something about the other person intending to use a condom or something. Or they'll put it on automatically and then I think you can ask. Either way, there's always a way to ask not to use a condom, I don't know why you're not getting the option.

only on a circumcised guys/mc you can get that but other than maybe in a single close penetration or activating the risk taker or close to needing to take a pill from the cisfem partner in sex