I hear you. It is a really tough time, both here in the UK (where I am) and in the US (where my partner is based). Also, I'm hearing that different people will get different vibes from this rule.
With that in mind, I'll keep the rule as-is, but add in a note of context. Keep an eye out for the revised version later today.
Thanks for going into depth about how reading the game made you feel, and apologies for the unpolished presentation of the early version. I'm hoping our conversation has rebuilt some trust, and you'd like to give Mum Chums a go in the future.