If you love statistics so much, you would also point out how straight relationships show overwhelmingly high rates of abuse and how men are overwhelmingly represented in abuse statistics, there are countless recent statistics on this, even as new as 2024.
Unlike you, however, I don’t believe that all men are abusive towards women or that most men are abusive towards them. In fact, I believe the rate of abuse toward men is actually underreported.
But judging by how you interpret statistics, you must believe that men abuse women frequently and that any relationship with them is overwhelmingly abusive, right? At least be fair. If you believe lesbian relationships are overwhelmingly abusive, you should also believe straight ones are too, or is that suddenly wrong? I mean, statistics show it.