hi! on day 0 you have to click "..." when it gives you that option. and then for the other options i'm pretty sure it doesn't matter until they send toasty's pic and then you have to call him cute! after that, if it worked, you should get a dialouge option with one of the options being "it take more than that to weird me out" or something along those lines. i just did it even w/o the Lola username so hopefully it works for you!!!