Oh, good to see people can relate (I suppose not that good since I channeled a lot of my anxiety into it, but still)
And as to "community", I intended that bit as a general lesbian community, though she'd probably go and introduce her to queer community as a whole (the discord friends mentioned are all queer), and if she wouldn't, Emily would... I'm not as fluent as I wish I was in lesbian circles, so the best I can give myself is really r/actuallesbians, sorry