Yeah but like the thing is, the guy his son almost accidentally killed is loke his surrogate son or whatever, he's bonded with him like a son and father dynamic and he wasn't really visiting the hospital he was donating money for his surgery and then planning on leaving and visiting his actual son in jail but his surrogate son's grandma told him to stay and pray for him and tbf he did try to say "no I've gotta be somewhere" but the lady kinda insisted and said "he needs you" so he'd seem like a kinda asshole if he just left but his son is gonna hate him if he doesn't leave so it's a pretty complicated situation and yes he should have visited his son but you can see how the situation can be difficult for someone especially if they have a difficulty saying no and such