Hell, at least you tried. I always buried myself in hobbies and work, so I never even took the time to. Women may be hot, but I have not met a single one that had the same interests as I, so I doubt our relationship would leave the bedroom. So I spend my spare with my bros instead, of which I enjoy every second. Some people call me gay because I don't even try to get a gf but bro I am happy like this, idk what to tell you