UPDATE 6/20/2022 Face Reveal?


Hi, guys! What's up?
I've finally settled down a bit from the festivity and I'm really astounded by the amount of support/love/blessings I've received these days >///<

Before writing this post, I considered to censor my face since... I don't know, I'm happy with our current relationship and I don't want to destroy what image you have about me, but then again, you guys have been sticking with me for years. Therefore, I think it's safe to say I want to be even more transparent with you all ^///^

So without further ado, here I go!

I was really nervous, like, I couldn't really sleep in my hotel back then and ended up only 'resting' my eyes until 2AM where I'm supposed to wake up and wait for my make up artist to arrive. I was in a daze for a while then, it hadn't sunk in until I see my mother fully dressed and it was my turn to wear my gown.

Then, the photo session began. Here's one of them with my cousins:

My mother took it x'D
There are lots of photos but I won't get them for 2-3 months until the photographer is finished retouching them all.

Anyways, it was a long happy day for me. We took lots of photos, went through many chinese wedding ceremonies (Like kneeling/bowing to the ancestors shrine, or Teppai, a tea ceremony where I bow to my husband's family elders and offer them tea. They'll give me red envelopes/gold in return to welcome me into the family). 

While I smiled and laughed a lot, I also... cried a lot :'D
Especially when it was time for the church wedding ceremony where we pay respect to our parents... I also cried during the following reception when it was time for my husband to bow and do Teppai for my deceased elders (I'm really close with them, so... I'm always sad whenever I'm reminded of the dead QuQ)

But overall, it was a happy event and one of the elders is 97 years old!

My husband said there will be a big, BIG celebration for his 100th birthday, so let's all wish him health for years to come <3

For those who are interested to see more photos of my wedding, you can add me on my facebook: Cecilia Sabrina SusantoIt's also fine if you want to stalk me lol I still owe you a visual novel x'D

So yeah, I think I'm good now. I still have lots of personal items to pack and unpack in my new house, but I think I can start doing some programming on Saturday & Sunday--just in case, let me apologize in advance if I ended up doing less than you expected or if the progress is becoming slower because I'm going to help around the house now that I'm a wife and I'm sure my mother-in-law will keep an eye on me or keep me busy Q_Q

But no matter what, I will always write a report on Monday! 
I hope I can provide you with more reassurance--if you have any questions, feel free to comment below and I'll do my best to answer them!
I'm always happy to see you read my post and while I'm not the fastest I hope to do my best for you ><

That's it for now and I hope all of you are in good health!
Don't skip your meals, drink lots, and stay safe everyone~!
xoxo,

SweetChiel

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Happy marriage!!! i rarely open this website so i just comment today. bless your wedding ! dont know what should i said but i hope for the best!!

Thank you, sherene aurely! >///<
I'm really happy to be able to meet a lot of new people in this update log ^///^ really, thank you for all the blessings! I feel like a really lucky person <3

Thank you for your trust in us and the pictures. :)

You looked stunning in that dress, like a princess. :) How wonderful that you were able to spend a day full of joy, excitement, tears and laughter with your whole family. Once again all the best for this new stage of your life. :)

Thank you for sharing your life with us all this time. This transparency makes you absolutely lovely. I hope you realize that! :)

Since I find your traditions totally intressing, I have a question.

Is there a "standard procedure" with the handling of the family name (surname)?

Here in Germany, until the 1970s, it was still the case (according to marriage law) that the man's family name became the marriage name by default. 

<3 Yanonako

Awww, thank you and you're welcome, Yanonako ^///^
As a Disney fan, I wanted to try wearing a ball gown once--and voila! It became my wedding dress! I can't ask for a better time to wear it <3

As for the handling of the family name... our future children will usually inherit my husband's last name. I will still keep my last name though, different from Japanese culture where the wife's last name will be changed to her husband's last name.

Now that you mention it, it's really interesting to see different cultures all over the world \(->u<-)/

Oh my gosh congratulations!!!! You look absolutely beautiful and I love your dress. I hope you and your husband have a happy and long marriage, and please take as much time off as you need!!

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Thank youuu, LainyBug! Q///Q
I also hope we'll be husband and wife till our hairs are white, and death do us apart, like our wedding vow--speaking of which, my husband stuttered and spoke really fast because he's nervous x'D so cute!

And thank you for being so understanding <3

omggg congrats! you look amazing! wishing you a happy marriage!!!

Amen and thank you, Dragoning! >///<
Gosh, I never thought so many people will gather here--thank you everyone!

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