this and I cannot get any slaves to become anything other than disobedient. I’be tried to get them to change but it won’t work, any advice on how to change this would be great.

There's a slave training topic that's been added in if you have enough money you can buy it then click on your slaves there should be a action button tap that and the first thing to pop up should be obedience training I've trained some of my slavers really well and they're worth more than some orders offer