Its not a major problem its just that is there a way to change your player because when i started the game i spawned in as a man then when i came back i spawned as a girl i know it sounds dumb but is there a way to change that?

No, as far es i know, it will change on each update until Denki gives us an Option.

I like the new player in each version. 

I believe Denki creates the players based on the name of the version - Erin seems to be a girl.  Embrace your feminism!