Hi my friend, thank you! :D
The upscale phase for video is really slow but with super pc like yours should definitely be fast. Did you check this options?
For example:
* AI backend option. Did you selected the right gpu? you should have 2 gpus, one integrated in cpu and the Nvidia 4090
* VRAM limiter option. Did you select the correct amount of VRAM for your gpu? For the 4090 you should select 24 GB
* CPU number optio. Did you select the correct amount of cpus? For example your cpu has 24 cores.
Also, for the new 10.0 version that will come in few weeks there are a LOT of bugfix and improvements for video upscaling in particular :)