thing is
i love my mom, and I still want to live with her-
well find a way- any way to make them get a divorce! I will not stand for a cheating prick motherfucker! Just get him out of the house! Even if you end up in jail for killing someone. Ahem! Sorry about that. I say when you go to college and keep in contact with your mom NEVER text your stepdad. Don't even LOOK at his contact. Forget he exists.